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Resurrection Encounter 1: Mary, Mother of Christ

Horsham: 2nd April 2026
Christ Appears to Mary, Mother of Christ

If you’ve visited my blog before, you probably know that I describe myself as a contemplative evangelical. I’ve written elsewhere about what that means to me, but put simply, the word ‘evangelical’ simply means that I regard the teachings of Scripture (both Old and New Testament) to be the essential core and basis of my faith. That being the case, you may wonder why I am starting this series on the resurrection with the appearance to Mary, the Mother of Christ. I can’t offer you a bible reference, because this incident doesn’t appear anywhere in Scripture. 

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The answer is simple. I have been exploring the ‘contemplative’ side of my faith using (not for the first time) the Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola, who, in common with the  widely accepted teaching of the Catholic Church, believes that the first appearance of Christ in his resurrection was to Mary, the Mother of Jesus.

Later in this series, we’ll see that there is a similar tradition that Christ appeared to Joseph of Arimathea (the similarity is that again this ‘incident’ is not reported in the Bible). Whilst they are not in Scripture, these are deeply held beliefs within the Catholic and Orthodox traditions, and so I’m exploring the background and why they are regarded as so significant. I found myself sufficiently interested in the teaching to spend some time reading about it.

The Background

Stories of the appearance of Christ to his mother date back to the earliest Church traditions and appear in writings from the 2nd – 4th Centuries. The story reoccurs in earliest writings of both Catholic and Orthodox traditions. It was most strongly supported in the writings of Saint Vincent Ferrer (1350-1419), whose Easter sermons strongly advocate the first appearance to Mary, but are largely based on assumptions about the depth of relationship which should exist between mother and son.

‘If indeed, someone were overseas, and his mother had unnderstood that  he had died, and he nevertheless healthy returned and would visit first other friends, and only last came to his mother, this would not be a good son, nor would he seem to have honoured his mother.’ (St Vincent Ferrer, quoted at www.ewtn.co.uk/article-after-his-resurrection-Jesus-appeared-first-to-mary-his-mother-mary-say-the-saints/)

Other writings point to the merits of Mary’s faith, pointing at moments such as the annunciation (Luke 1:26-38)

Perhaps surprisingly, the strongest modern influence comes from comments by Pope John Paul II who wrote ‘it is legitimate to think that the Mother was probably the first person to whom the risen Jesus appeared.’ (General Audience, Vatican, May 21 1997).

Importance of Mary

Let’s be clear – Mary is one of the most important characters in the Gospels. As protestants, we tend to be a bit reticent to talk about Mary. We rightly admire her readiness to trust God in our advent services, but rarely mention her during the rest of the year. Yet she had a unique position, being there at the very beginning and at the very end of Christ’s life on earth.

Of course, we are uncomfortable because we have been warned against the  ‘worship’ of Mary, mother of Christ, but in reality, in most Catholic traditions at least, Mary is venerated rather than worshipped. I’m not going to go into that too much here, but there is a huge difference.

Whilst I think that, from a protestant perspective, the veneration of Mary sometimes looks like worship, it seems to me that in our rush to distance ourselves from idolotary we can overlook the extraordinary importance of Mary and her role in the birth, life and death of Jesus. 

Scriptural Context

So, before we get carried away with criticism, we need to remember that Scripture is clear that the resurrection period was 40 days long (Acts 1:3). Yet we have very few scriptural records of the appearances of Christ. In 1 Corinthians 15 , the Apostle Paul mentions a time when Christ appeared to more than 500 people at the same time, although this extraordinary incident is not recorded in any of the Gospels (1 Corinthians 15:3-8). The Road to Emmaus is mentioned only in Luke, and the appearance to Thomas is found only in John. So, it is reasonable to question whether the Gospels give us the complete story of the resurrection period?

John reminds us that not everything Jesus ever did is recorded in the Gospels (John 21:25), and it seems to me that this probably applies to his whole time on earth, including the resurrection period. That being the case, it is feasible that Mary did experience the presence of her son in his resurrection, and in human terms it would seem to be unfair if she didn’t. However, as an evangelical, I believe that we need to be constantly careful in our interpretation of Scripture, and particularly mindful of the risks of adding to the story (Deut 4:2; Galatians 1:9).

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For myself, I believe that we have much to learn from contemplative reflection on the life of Mary, Mother of Christ. From the annunciation, through to her desperate and lonely vigil at the foot of the cross, Mary is a huge (and often overlooked) witness to the whole life of Christ. Yet in common with most biblical character, we know frustratingly little about her. Having said that, if I am to hold to the belief that the Bible is the core of my beliefs, I have to be deeply skeptical of the introduction of any teaching about the life and resurrection of Christ which are not wholly based on Scripture. 

We need to be constantly careful in our interpretation of Scripture, and particularly mindful of the risks of adding to it, either literally of by implication (eg Deut 4:2; Galatians 1:9). In doing so we mislead ourselves and others. This responsibility weighs particularly heavily on those who lead or teach. I have no doubt that Christ appeared in his resurrection many times, and to many different people. It would be particularly special if amongst them was his mother, Mary. The Bible doesn’t say that the resurrected Jesus didn’t meet Mary, but importantly, be in no doubt that it doesn’t say that he did.

‘Every word of God is flawless; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him. Do not add to his words, or he will rebuke you and prove you a liar.’ Proverbs 30: 5-6.

Richard Jackson: Horsham,West Sussex

Jesus Anointed: Mark 14:3-9

Jesus Anointed: Mark 14:3-9

While he was in Bethany, reclining at the table in the home of Simon the Leper, a woman came with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, made of pure nard. She broke the jar and poured the perfume on his head.

Some of those present were saying indignantly to one another, “Why this waste of perfume? It could have been sold for more than a year’s wages[a] and the money given to the poor.” And they rebuked her harshly.

“Leave her alone,” said Jesus. “Why are you bothering her? She has done a beautiful thing to me. The poor you will always have with you,[b] and you can help them any time you want. But you will not always have me. She did what she could. She poured perfume on my body beforehand to prepare for my burial. Truly I tell you, wherever the gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.”

Mark 14:3-9

Horsham: 21st October 2025

John’s Gospel places this incident very specifically at the beginning of Holy Week, six days before the Passover (John 12:1-8). Mark places it here, in the midst of his account of the Holy Week story, to show the contrast between the love of Christ’s friends and the venom of the religious leaders who want to kill him (Wiersbe, p161).

Jesus has arrived at Bethany with his disciples in readiness for the Passover festival. He will be spending his days a few miles away in Jerusalem, mostly in the Temple Courts. At night, he will return to the village. Bethany is home to Martha, Mary, Lazarus and other friends of Jesus. One such friend is a man called Simon. They call him ‘the Leper’, so we assume that he was probably someone who had recovered from Leprosy, possibly after an encounter with Christ. Some believe that Simon is actually another name for Lazarus.

The men are reclining at the table, on low couches or maybe on the ground. At some point during the meal, a woman, John tells us that it was Mary, comes into the room. Culturally, the women would have only come to the table to serve food, or remove unwanted dishes.

There was a tradition of hospitality that when a guest arrived at the house, a few drops on perfume would be offered, to refresh them from the dust of the road. Let’s be honest, it probably worked as a deodorant.

Mary is carrying an ‘alabaster jar’. These small lightweight jars were commonly used to contain liquids, spices or ointments.

Mary stands above Jesus (remember he is laying down to eat), and breaks open the flask. The entire contents spill over Christ’s head. and drip down his neck and shoulders. The whole house smells of incredible perfume. This is an anointing, reminiscent of the preparation of a body for the tomb.

Mark tells us that the perfume was pure spikenard. Spikenard comes from a plant which only grew in India. It was rare. It was precious. It was very expensive The contents of the flask would have cost close to a year’s wages for a working man. It’s perhaps not so surprising that some, including some of the disciples, thought that this was a truly wasteful act. They rebuked Mary sharply. It could, of course, have been sold The proceeds given to the poor.

Jesus, in turn, rebukes them. The woman has done something beautiful. The Greek work here (kalos) means ‘lovely’. She has done something very special. Something extravagant and generous. Something loving. She may have known that Jesus expected to die. Whether she did or not, she has anointed his body, as it were, in preparation for his burial.

Others criticised Mary, Jesus commended her.

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In this little scene, we see a woman doing all that she can to demonstrate her extravagant love for Jesus. Her reward is to face the frustration of people around her, even her friends. Yet her act of generosity and love is welcomed by Jesus.

‘No matter what others may say about our worship and service, the most important thing is that we please the Lord. The fact that others misunderstand and criticise us should not keep us from showing our love of Christ. Our concern should be his approval alone.’ (Wiersbe, p162)

Richard Jackson, West Sussex: LifePictureUK